tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156460846792208270.post8257338302136521127..comments2023-06-13T13:04:54.049+01:00Comments on The Heart Star: Oh, there I am.Arienettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05226584891432763246noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156460846792208270.post-40541008590131478302011-06-21T23:21:46.968+01:002011-06-21T23:21:46.968+01:00Hello, you [enormous hug]
First of all: Happy Bel...Hello, you [enormous hug]<br /><br />First of all: Happy Belated Birthday. I can send a cake, you know...? Am glad you did something that made your face ache through so much grinning; if anyone deserves huge swathes of joy, it's you.<br /><br />I lack the words to express how incredibly sorry I am to hear about your second miscarriage; I've never been in your position, with everything I can think of saying sounding banal and trite, so all I can do is send you love, love, love. And then more love.<br /><br />As for being a 'shit friend and blogger' .. I seriously doubt you have the capacity for such things. I completely understand the need to 'not blog' for a while; looking back on what I wrote last year, I can see it only fuelled my rapidly-diminishing emotional/physical/mental capacities. I'm finding it hard to write too, in case it drains me or, worse, it inflames the sadness/bat-shit-crazy-ness. Etc.<br /><br />I still have faith in you, honey. Such things survive in any silence between us. And I always will.<br /><br />xxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156460846792208270.post-32591674004501611142011-06-09T23:08:42.996+01:002011-06-09T23:08:42.996+01:00I'm sorry life has been a bit of a shitfest fo...I'm sorry life has been a bit of a shitfest for you lately. I wish I could say something or do something. Just know that if you ever need to email vent, I'm here AND I'm on facebook. :)<br /><br />It sounded like you had a lovely time on your birthday. I can't believe you're less than a year older than me. Probably because I still feel like a baby myself sometimes. lol<br /><br />I hope things get better. I've missed hearing from you! (But don't stress yourself out about keeping up with blogs! Rest and whenever you're ready, everyone can fill you in.)Sarahttp://saraswearsalot.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156460846792208270.post-9864924851561674892011-06-08T14:00:48.823+01:002011-06-08T14:00:48.823+01:00V: I suspected as much, although Dr Google told me...V: I suspected as much, although Dr Google told me no, something in my gut told me yes, and a conversation with a friend about the hormones required to sustain a pregnancy made me wonder if my hormone-triggered HMS was connected. Do you know any fancy things I can tell my Dr to make him take the issue seriously? I don't know the science behind it all and I don't think 'I have wonky joints and I know I have one baby already but thats irrelevant and I don't think I can stop miscarrying because of it.' will impress.<br />Both my mother and my aunt had miscarriages at around 4months, and possibly more early ones in the days before pregnancy was easily detectable. They also are both hypermobile, although not as much as I am. It could be a cincidence, maybe, (I mean, miscarriages are common) but what if it isnt?Arienettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05226584891432763246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156460846792208270.post-15962569885203241072011-06-08T05:55:41.327+01:002011-06-08T05:55:41.327+01:00Oh honey, sending love and hugs. And yes, sadly hy...Oh honey, sending love and hugs. And yes, sadly hypermobility is connected to miscarriages. xxxx<br /><br />Happy Birthday too!Veronicahttp://veronicafoale.comnoreply@blogger.com